On Getting Very Very Old
January 2, 2011 in feet don't fail me, Geriatric, Getting old, Opinions
I sincerely hope my rambling thoughts on this subject doesn’t upset any of those who choose to read it, but I’m quickly approaching the time in my life when this subject has real meaning, and am thankful I still have thoughts that can be thrown together into complete sentences. Besides, I’m tired of staring at my belly button, and want to get the last pompous observations out of my brain before I don’t care any more.
Getting very old is not fun, and it’s not cracked up to be what we’ve been trying to convince ourselves all our lives. The best we can hope for is that when our feet don’t run “no mo”, our minds will still produce something, hopefully, better and not worse than when our feet could run. When I approached 50 I kept hearing the new “30″ is now “50.” Then I heard the new “40″ is now “60,” and now that I’m finally getting to that magical of age 70, I’m hearing the new “50″ is now “70.” I have simply one word response to this: Bullshit.
I suppose the sentiments are meant to “cheer” one up, make one feel not so bad bout getting so old. I think this is a shame. It’s sure as hell a lot better getting to 70 than not getting there, so all of those who made it this far should rejoice.
Furthermore, I was thinking back to my own grandparents, parents, and what getting old for them was like. It was like, uh, getting old! I don’t recall hearing any of the older folks complain about their waists, wrinkles, lack of hair, or anything cosmetic. Plastic Surgeons would have been hard pressed to make any money back in those days. My ancestors were happy old people..there was no “role” models for each passing milestone. It just happened.
There’s always a trigger that starts me to thinking about these things, and in this case it was a friend who is quickly approaching 70. He shared with us an article, which I’d like to share with you here: (note: don’t know why my links aren’t showing up as clickable…you’ll have to copy and paste this into your URL)
http://www.nytimes.com/2010/12/31/opinion/31jacoby.html?_r=1&pagewanted=1&nl=todaysheadlines&emc=tha212